Bad Man

Wife trying to seduce her husband for more sex

1. tiffany: Hey, my husband had to work overtime....But when he finally came home I was able to surprise him with some rope that I wrapped seductively all around my body....I caught him off guard. He was on the phone in our bedroom. I went in the bathroom, removed my robe, walked in the room....and he immediately got off the phone :)
2. me: hey it still worked out great then
3. tiffany: oh yes
4. me: what kind of a rope was it? Silk?
5. tiffany: real rope...lol
6. me: omg....r u serious
7. tiffany: lol yes
8. i can't believe myself
9. me: i know the Japanese do it as part of something kinky called shibari
10. tiffany: really
11. me: i hope u did not get scratched
12. tiffany: lol no ididnt
13. me: good then whatever works....i had one lady tell me how she would tie up herself in silk ribbon
14. to be opened like a gift
15. tiffany: it was like a thong bikini
16. over 6ft of rope
17. me: naughty girl u r!
18. tiffany: lol
19. me: yeah the important point is that every night will be different
20. and you should be able to change according to the situation
21. tiffany: yes
22. me: as long as you have several ideas and plans
23. tiffany: every night or ever now and then
24. me: well every night can be fun even if it is just cuddling and hugging
25. tiffany: yeah
26. me: i know that u now have the secretary thing already planned out
27. tiffany: yeah i will do it tonight and saturday night i guess we will watch the movie that we were supposed to watch last night
28. me: which movie is it
29. tiffany: hancock...will smith
30. block buster night
31. me: ah ok.....yeah try the secretary thing when you get the moment and then some christmas themes might be appropriate
32. tiffany: sounds good
33. me: do u have any santa lingerie
34. tiffany: nooo
35. me: anything red or green?
36. tiffany: noooo, maybe i can find something
37. me: yeah if u can use a rope as thong well u can do anything...LOL
38. tiffany: lmao...
39. me: i guess just wrap your boobs and pubic area in some wrapping paper and u r good to go
40. tiffany: yeah huh...i think i'm a more freaky than i really am
41. me: well we all have a naughty side; it just needs to come out
42. tiffany: right
43. me: so did u have sex 2 last night
44. tiffany: yep. he stated he was tired yesterday and wanted to sleep early....but that didnt happen
45. me: lol.....oh if i saw u in a rope thong i will also forget my exhaustion....lol
46. tiffany: lmao lol lol
47. he said he was really surprised
48. and he really liked it
49. me: tiff u r a lucky girl to have such a loving husband
50. tiffany: yes he is.
51. i guess stress gets the best of us sometimes
52. me: well we all live under stress and this year has been hard for lots of americans but sex is a great way to destress
53. tiffany: sure is and will be doing it more often
54. me: sex should not get boring
55. and if both partners try some imagination
56. tiffany: it sure wasnt boring last night
57. me: oh taking that rope off must have been kinky....
58. tiffany: yeah it was because i had to it nice and snug and i knotted it right in the crease of my butt
59. me: lol.......that was so cute and naughty i think...
60. tiffany: tmi huh
61. me: i am happy that your shyness is reducing
62. tiffany: yeah i am feeling more comfortable
63. me: glad to know that...coz it seems that deep inside u r a sexy woman
64. tiffany: i truly am, i just never acted this way before
65. me: so it was all in ur head
66. tiffany: yeah i guess. im 5'7 145lbs. i have dreads piercings and tattoos but i am shy....that don't mix huh???
67. lol
68. me: i think we all are a mix really.....no one is white or black....we are all kinda different shades of gray
69. tiffany: true
70. me: i have known girls that are so shy in public but so kinky in bed....
71. tiffany: i leading up to that. thats the way its supposed to bed
72. me: i know but it is always a surprise to me....
73. coz looks can be deceving
74. tiffany: sure can
75. me: i guess it is great to know your sexuality and have a partner who appreciates it and that is a great combination in your relationship
76. tiffany: yes it is
77. me: i have a sense that no matter how kinky you want to be your husband will be fine with it
78. tiffany: yes
79. you are absolutely right
80. me: coz in many relationship the other partner is just not into it and that can be a problem...i think when ur husband suggested prancing around the house in those daisy dukes i knew that he was a naughty man
81. tiffany: lol yeah he has it in him
82. me: and as u make these changes u will discover things that u might not have known about him
83. tiffany: yep
84. me: and that is why my approach of baby steps is a good one
85. tiffany: and i thank u...sorry for using rope so soon...lol
86. me: oh u r welcome....but the rope worked out great so it is great
87. tiffany: ok good. so whats next
88. me: now have u changed your behavior in any way while having sex
89. tiffany: my behavior???
90. me: like touching and kissing during sex
91. tiffany: ooh yeah. we are kissing everytime now and i rub his back
92. me: oh that is great......ask him what his sensitive spots on the body are
93. tiffany: ok i will
94. i have an idea though.
95. me: yeah?
96. tiffany: anywhere below his waist...lol
97. me: well the penis is always sensitive and so are the balls and the area around the anus
98. tiffany: yep
99. me: my inner thighs are sensitive too
100. tiffany: yeah, he laughs when i touch him....you know i give him oral sex too
101. me: well touching can sometimes cause minor tickling and it is good because it relaxes the person......
102. and of course no man has ever said no to oral sex
103. tiffany: :)
104. me: especially if a woman knows how to use her tongue
105. tiffany: yeah i try
106. lol
107. me: thats all u can do anyway
108. tiffany: yep
109. me: and practice makes a woman perfect
110. tiffany: so whats perfect for you if i might ask
111. me: of course u may
112. tiffany: lol
113. me: i think a perfect woman is one who is open minded and willing to try new things.
114. and once your do something over and over u do master the art
115. tiffany: yeah i'm hesitant at first but once i get the hang of it i am full throttle
116. me: yeah i am figuring that out and i am proud of u
117. tiffany: in whatever i do that is
118. me: sex is a joint journey for a couple and if both are ready to try it can be a lot of fun
119. tiffany: yeah i wanna try it in a chair one day. just straddle him and ride out
120. me: that would work rather well in your secretary outfit
121. so called office sex
122. tiffany: yeah huh
123. tiffany: my legs hurt though most of the time when i'm on top
124. me: hmmm....r u bending them the right way....
125. tiffany: i think so
126. it feels as though im doing a million squats
127. me: and this is one bed?
128. tiffany: yeah
129. me: i don't know what to say....r ur knees generally a problem while working out
130. tiffany: lol yes they are
131. me: maybe thats why....and i guess if u do it on a chair then your knees wouldn't be bent and shouldnt hurt
132. tiffany: i'm gonna try it
133. tiffany: im not lazy because i work out but he says i'm being lazy sometimes
134. me: maybe he does not realize what pregnancy can do to a woman
135. tiffany: i don't wanna work for it
136. even before pregnancy. that's probable why i cant cum vaginally
137. me: yeah that is often the problem with many men....they dont always appreciate life from a womans perspective
138. tiffany: wait a sec i have to change my baby...
139. me: ok
140. tiffany: exactly, they have no idea
141. me: but i give credit to women to still tolerating them and trying hard....
142. tiffany: exactly because i do try
143. me: and i am seeing that you are trying real hard right now...how about the orgasms?
144. tiffany: i came close to having one last night. but no luck. i always have them during oral sex though
145. me: u mean when you suck him?
146. tiffany: no when its done to me
147. me: thats what I thought.....does he do it often enough?
148. tiffany: well he just got braces so i have been without for a few days....but as long as i can make him cum i'm happy
149. me: i am wondering if he is penetrating you the right way
150. tiffany: i wonder that too...would u like to try...just kidding. but i often thought maybe he's not big enough
151. me: lol.....i wouldnt mind it after opening that rope thong...lol
152. tiffany: lmao
153. me: jokes aside, how big is he
154. tiffany: he wears a size 9 shoe
155. me: and any idea about his erect penis
156. tiffany: i had to geo get a ruler maybe 6 1/2 7 inches
157. thats small huh?
158. me: i think that is average by american standards based on the data that i have seen
159. tiffany: oh ok
160. in my single days i've seen and had bigger
161. me: i have been told repeatedly that size does not matter all that much...it is what u do with it
162. tiffany: yeah that true, so i better get to doing what i gotta do in order to cum
163. me: yeah move ur pelvis after he is in to get the angle right
164. tiffany: i do but i never cum
165. me: hmmm.....i am also told that sex is in the head....if u r not mentally turned on u wont cum
166. tiffany: i thought a couple of times. i tell myself often i cant cum that way so i dont. that's probably the reason why
167. me: maybe it is a mental block and i think that as u explore your sexuality the way you have been in last week and then open up your mind about orgasm it will happen
168. tiffany: maybe. i'll keep doing what i'm doing and keep trying
169. me: and then there is always masturbation...the more you do it the more your discover your body and then you can move it the rihgt way during sex to cum
170. tiffany: i never did that
171. me: try it......i encourage u
172. tiffany: k
173. me: maybe this afternoon
174. tiffany: what is that....fingering yourself huh
175. me: that is part of it......but touching yourself to orgasm is the key
176. tiffany: okay
177. me: give it a shot....it may not be perfect the first time but u get better over time....
178. u will be amazed by what u dont know
179. tiffany: i will try it
180. me: good....just start off by standing in front of a mirror so that u have a good view of yourself and touch yourself wherever it feels right and do it for as long as it feels good
181. tiffany: ok i will, but i used to think its disgusting to do that. i guess that is the only way for me to overcome my inablity to be satisfied
182. me: first of all sex is not disgusting and u have to get this out of your head
183. tiffany: no not sex...just touching myself. i'm used to someone else touching me
184. me: well i know some people see it that way but i see nothing wrong and one survey said 90% of women do it
185. tiffany: ok let me get in that percentage...lol
186. me: lol....good girl.....
187. it is not as if you are doing another man
188. tiffany: true
189. me: u and ur body....and the goal is to learn more about your body so that when your hubby does it u know how to move
190. tiffany: exactly....maybe i don't know how to move right
191. me: maybe u dont know your own sex organs...
192. tiffany: what do u mean
193. me: that u may not know where your gspot is and how to position it right to orgasm
194. tiffany: BINGOOOOO
195. i have no clue
196. me: so i am hoping that u will figure it out
197. tiffany: straight clueless....eventually i will come across it...lol
198. me: yeah feel it around all over and u will be amazed what u did not know
199. tiffany: ok
200. me: let me know if u need help doing it....LOL
201. tiffany: actually i do where are u....no but seriously it's up within me huh
202. me: what help do u need
203. tiffany: how to find it. u say touch myself all over but i'm not gonna cum like that